Precious People

It seems I'm always telling others how wonderful people are and that one of the points of life is to develop relationships. I really do feel that way. My life is what it is because of the people who I have been blessed to have in it. My children have progressed because of the village of individuals who have been inspirations and guides to them. My job has evolved into what it is because of the mentors who saw potential in me and gave me chances to grow in education and child care. My marriage has grown from friendships that led me to my Chad, and we have blossomed in love for over 21 years now. Though we all come with inherent traits and personalities, the people who surround us shape us into who we can become.

That being said, social situations bring out the nervous person in me. It's only gotten worse as I've gotten older. I can work myself into a tizzy leading up to an event where I know I have to socialize. As important as friendships and relationships are to me, I guess I sometimes have a hard time believing that I could possibly be as important to someone else. I do not have a natural grace with people. I'm not witty and I am a terrible story teller. If I tell a joke, the punch line is always in the wrong place, or I forget the joke in the middle of it. I'm the person who thinks of something clever to say....3 days later. I'm a little awkward.

 







All of this makes me even more grateful for the people accept me, befriend me and even love me. I wouldn't make it without that kinship. I'm grateful when it is understood that I get nervous and am drawn in anyway. I love my peeps in all areas of my life. I'm so blessed.

 

This weekend was full of wonderful people moments, starting with an exhilarating, joyful reunion with 2 of my dear friends from highschool-Kimburly Smith Sa and LaDena Martineau Kailing.  We got together Friday afternoon and it was one of the most grand and fulfilling events I've had this summer. I'm amazed at the kinship that is still very present in our relationship and I'm grateful for the love that has lasted between friends over many years. I was so very humble that I felt loved and accepted and am even possibly important to these amazing women. I love them. They inspire me in the extreme. Now we just need our friend Charity to come be with us. Best. Day. Ever.

Me, LaDena and Kimmi





The rest of the weekend was just as inspiring to me as I was able to be surrounded by good people in my family, my neighborhood and church. I am in awe of the blessings I have in the people around me. Thanks to my peeps. I really do love you!

Me and Kimmi-friends for 28 years and counting